Intrigue.
I really wonder whether most of the people have been intrigued by the world that we live in..I'm sure it didn't. thats the way the world is...
for some the world is perfect with their own life, their own people, their own lives..just the way it was and it continued..
life always intrigued me, whatever that has happened or happening around me is something i think about.."the things i experienced, or lived through" have made me thoughtful..that there's a life far from perfect and real..it still exist in our life..we can act blind to it in a way and lead our lives peacefully, perfectly.
I'm barely remarking my thoughts here. .
what i think is the bonds and relations between men and women is a broad one, just like love. we feel it to someone who might be from a different place, community or cast. people due to ignorance or male domination( i guess both are responsible) made lines and discretions..in fact people shrunk a very broad and multidimensional reality into one bond "the marriage"
the love before marriage became a sin then, the first mistake.
the physical love was prohibited even to those who love (the most ridiculous chain to one's self and individuality)
love is divine, physical love is sin...(even poets are responsible for this non sense)
and one day when they're married, everything is fine and calm...
this saga is continued and practiced for a long time, i really hope that ends soon. it has to.
because if it doesn't, women will never be free, i know girls in my class, it was the same with them.. they've been fed this from their childhood ..so i'm not hoping any improvements in that..i really hope may be after 50 or 60 years we won't be following these...
just like a religion, chains leads to explosion..you can't be chained forever.
too sad that the women never really understood it, they've a general belief that speaking out their mind, speaking out their beliefs are perceived badly, true.. cause we males don't like you people to get more freedom or thoughts of freedom..once that happens, we lose our extra pleasures. in order to please the male counterparts women are running after chains..like who is more chained wins..I can't think..
why women study? why women speak for their rights? we give them everything right? thats a common male pshyche here.. too bad women are the most to welcome that.. cause they think they don't have an existence without the male's approval.
Once women are liberated, they'll have the freedom to choose their mates, sexuality is a very personal thing...an individual who is completely formed inside, feels its his or her own private thing and no one has the right to question it, when we let others control it, we're being slaves.
i know mostly girls are formed like packages, packages that are ready to be exported to different places..so all girls try to satisfy the customer in other words, stupid male domination prevailing here..the more vulnerable are more favored to us..so in a way girls are trying relentless to be the number one in this race (number one in slaves)..too sad that they never feel what they want..or they will never feel anything wrong with the system or a simple intrigue in their minds "is this right to me?"never rise.. NO. they're happy the way everything moves, in a way they're just observers of their own lives.
we learn things from our lives, the people we see, the place we live and so on..being the same for years is never favored, instead we adapt, we take the goods and leave the bads..like that we evolve..but i know here where i live, we're going backwards..like centuries before..we're being chained more with religion, cultural beliefs etc...hey this is India, where young adults get killed by their parents for loving from a different cast (i really wish you had read about that).. we live in such a world and still we want to keep all our traditions..there're traditions thats has to be followed and i'm never against it.
in the case of gender equality, personal freedom, individuality, personal expressions, wide outlook etc...we're really walking back to our past..i don't know where we're gonna end up...years before we had ideals to rely on..now we lack that...all we believe in this world is age old traditions and we continue all those even today never asking the reason behind it.
there're a lot of prostitutes, bisexuals, trans-genders, homosexuals, there'll be a time for them to come out of the black and walk freely among us...hope that day is nos so far..people's attitude will change...the world which is hidden from our perfect little world shall open up and shake our beliefs.
Love before marriage is a sin, it is so tough, love someone in a different cast is condemned.. we do that now, times changing cause the world has changed. hope is still there, it runs very slow anyway..people started to understand
one day people living together before marriage will not be a hot news in India..lovers wont be afraid to be their selves to the world..they'll walk the road proudly wearing their own symbols and nature and they'd announce their love kissing publicly. i would love to live that day..heads up. then i'll die...
